As a veterinarian who’s worked with families for over 30 years, I often hear the same excited question from parents: “Doctor, my child wants a pet — should we get one?”
It’s a beautiful thing when children show love for animals. Pets can teach them empathy, responsibility, and unconditional love. But bringing a pet into your home is a decision that needs more than just a full heart — it needs a prepared one.
Why Does Your Child Wants a Pet?
Children may ask for a pet because their friends have one, they saw a cute reel online, or they simply love animals. It’s important to gently explore their reasons. Are they ready to care for a living being, or is it just a passing fascination?
Pets Are a Family Commitment
Despite the sweetest promises, most children can’t manage full-time pet care alone. Feeding schedules, hygiene, vet checkups, grooming — it becomes a family responsibility. And when that adorable puppy grows into a demanding adult dog, your involvement will only increase.
Think Beyond the Cuteness
As a vet, I always urge families to consider:
- Do you have the time and space?
- Can you manage the financial cost of food, vaccinations, and medical care?
- Is your home environment safe for a pet?
These are not small questions — they’re the foundation of responsible pet parenting.
Let Your Child Experience Pet Care First
Before you commit, I recommend spending time with a friend or relative’s pet. Let your child observe and participate in feeding, walking, or cleaning. Visiting a pet café or speaking to your local vet can also open your child’s eyes to the reality of pet care.
When You’re Ready, It’s a Joy
Bringing a pet home is one of life’s most rewarding journeys — when the family is ready. And if you’re not quite there yet, that’s okay. Love also means waiting for the right time.
As your local vet, I’m always here to guide you — with care, honesty, and what’s best for both your child and your future pet.